The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back! - Marisa Peer
- Guest
- Marisa Peer
- Read time
- ~4 min
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- 18 Sept 2023
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- 1:22:58
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KEYPOINTS
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~80% of success tracks beliefs — ‘I'm not good enough/smart/attractive enough’ damages outcomes.
Marisa Peer (celebrity therapist): beliefs are chosen/changeable. Question origin of sexual/relationship shame scripts. Grandmother's belief (men don't want rich successful women) was true ~100 years ago, not now — update inherited scripts.
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Weird trick framing: rapid hypnosis/imagery/reframe to restore desire & confidence — cheat fear, steal back born confidence.
Exam reframe: scared brain empties; say great memory/love exams/excited → performance shifts. Needle cough confuses mind so you don't feel pain — directed attention.
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Language creates reality — ‘I can never sleep / neighbours get on my nerves’ vs headphones reframe.
Irritating-but-manageable language vs absolute catastrophe language. Reverse ‘I don't love partner because missing out’ to chosen belief audit.
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Childhood beliefs totally different from adult beliefs — not awful, not amazing, but scripts changeable.
She doesn't talk about childhood a lot; points to mutability. Success/money 20s–30s attracted people and changed self-beliefs.
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Habit of messiness justified as ‘faster’ — dissonance with desired order.
Built-in story vs actual cost. Change the story first.
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Sexual/relationship shame often inherited, not discovered truth.
Rapid reframe tools aim at desire restoration. Consent and clinical care still matter alongside hypnosis framing.
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Fear scripts empty working memory under pressure.
Positive self-instruction as performance hygiene. Not lying — directed cognition.
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Reverse inherited gender/money attraction myths explicitly.
Ask: whose century is this belief from?
EXAMPLES
- 01
~80% success down to beliefs claim.
Core stat framing.
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Exam fear empties brain vs excited memory script.
Reframe demo.
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Grandmother belief ~100 years out of date.
Inherited script.
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Needle cough distracts pain.
Attention trick.
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Sleep/neighbour absolute language → reality.
Language trap.
OTHER RELEVANT
- 01
Audit three ‘I'm not enough’ sentences; rewrite exam-style.
Trace one relationship shame script to who taught it. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip. Hold the guest's named mechanisms and numbers; apply one concrete change this week rather than collecting another abstract tip.
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Replace absolute catastrophe language with manageable-irritation + action.
Update grandmother-era gender/money beliefs.
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Use imagery/reframe tools with professional help if trauma-deep.
Treat belief change as reps, not one weird trick forever.