Paul Brunson: "The 70/30 Body Shape Is Scientifically The Most Sexy" & THIS Predicts Divorce!
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- Paul Brunson
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- 1 Feb 2024
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KEYPOINTS
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70/30 waist-to-hip body-shape fertility framing as evolutionary preference talk — controversial but he goes there.
Paul Brunson: #1 breakup driver often not finance/infidelity — specific behaviours with ~99% breakup likelihood when present. Fear of rejection #1 for men (people laugh at the stat).
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Arranged marriages lasting longer via selection/family scaffolding vs pure romance/choice myth.
Psychology of choice: everyone wants choice; overload can worsen loneliness. Factory-job isolation without cousins → partner as only belonging/safety/esteem.
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Attachment style linked to orgasm frequency research — love this topic.
Relationship science undervalued; falls asleep to lectures. Worked for Oprah and Turkish education billionaire before switching.
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Where you spend free time and discretionary money = what you value (Bible study example).
Audit reveals true priorities. Build small habits → bigger relationship tasks.
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Future of dating includes body metrics talk that makes people mad.
Waist % of hips fertility cue. Hold science vs ethics carefully.
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Loneliness from lost extended family + work isolation.
Partner overburdened as sole tribe. Belonging needs.
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Rejection fear underestimated in male dating behaviour.
Laughable until measured. Address skill + courage.
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Behavioural predictors beat money/cheating as breakup #1.
Learn the 99% behaviours; change them.
EXAMPLES
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Waist ~70% of hips fertility framing.
70/30 hook.
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~99% breakup if certain behaviours.
Predictor.
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Fear of rejection #1 (laughed at).
Male insight.
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Arranged vs choice longevity scaffolding.
Structure.
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Attachment↔orgasm research interest.
Science.
OTHER RELEVANT
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Audit breakup-risk behaviours; don't assume money/cheating only.
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Practice rejection reps if fear is #1 block.
Spend free time/money aligned with stated values.
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Study attachment; treat relationship science as serious literacy.
Hold evolutionary body talk without reducing people to metrics.