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World Leading Psychologist: How To Detach From Overthinking & Anxiety: Dr Julie Smith | E122

Guest: Dr Julie Smith
Read time: ~4 min
Uploaded: 3 Mar 2022
Duration: 1:36:10
Views: 4.7M

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KEYPOINTS

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Can’t stop habit loops under ideals of perfect everything—impossible load causes burnout.
Clinical psychologist Julie Smith (3M+ followers): habitual behaviors are what we default to under stress/pressure/overload. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin.
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Regular values check-ins—values flip when children arrive.
Life-stage recalibration as mental health tool. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory.
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Detach (title) from overload by aligning actions to current values.
Method. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap.
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Perfection ideals as cultural stressor.
Cause. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype.
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Burnout/pressure/stress stack she treats publicly.
Scope. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore.
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Habits as autopilot under impossible standards.
Mech. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin.
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Motherhood values transformation example.
Case. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory.
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Million-follower education platform.
Reach. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap.
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Circumstances change values—update checklists.
Practice. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype.
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Stop-now urgency of compulsive loops.
Tone. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore.

EXAMPLES

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Can’t stop now compulsive line.
Hook.
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Ideals / do everything perfectly / impossible.
Load. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype.
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Habitual things we end up doing.
Habits.
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Regular values check-ins.
Tool.
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Values flipped with children.
Example. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin.
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3M+ follower psychologist.
Bio.

OTHER RELEVANT

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Schedule a monthly values check-in on calendar.
Habit. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype.
02
Drop one perfection standard this week.
Load. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin.
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Replace can’t-stop loops with tiny alternative actions.
Swap. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore.
04
Update goals after life-stage shifts (kids, jobs).
Recalibrate. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory. Trade-offs are named instead of hidden behind hype. That distinction keeps the takeaway actionable rather than slogan-thin. Listeners should test a small version before making a dramatic leap. Context from this episode stops the claim becoming internet folklore. He grounds the point in lived examples from the conversation rather than abstract theory.