Beyond Luck: The 5 Sources of Advantage You Need to Win (Audio)

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Gio Valiante
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31 Oct 2023
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KEYPOINTS

  • 01

    There are five main ways to win, and raw talent is only the first.

    Valiante's framework, drawn from 15 years as a sports psychologist on the PGA Tour and thousands of hours coaching hedge-fund investors, is: talent, effort, a differentiated perspective, process, and hiring well. Talent looks like Rory McIlroy, whose swing at six is the swing he has today, or Eddie Van Halen picking up his brother's guitar and playing licks Alex had worked on for weeks. But about 140 players tee off at a PGA Tour event and the most talented doesn't win every week. The other four routes are how everyone else competes.

  • 02

    At the extreme top, work and hobby fuse, and people come to love the boring parts.

    Psychologists often tell people to keep identity separate from work, but at the top hundredth of a percent the two tend to blend: Kobe Bryant, Bode Miller, Kelly Slater, Newton, Einstein. Valiante says Steve Cohen ran his high school investing club and, over roughly 10,000 trading days, took four off, all because he was in the hospital. Valiante calls the key shift an 'inversion': you start to love the hard parts. Tiger Woods practiced three-foot putts for so long that he wore lines into the grass. Swimmers who drill flip turns do the same. Talent plus the most effort, as with Michael Jordan, becomes legendary.

  • 03

    A differentiated perspective lets you win by seeing the same game differently.

    Valiante sees the Big Dipper; Van Gogh saw Starry Night. In college football, he says, Nick Saban treats the game as an arms race for talent, Steve Spurrier as a game of space (throw into open field and let the receiver run under it: 10 SEC titles despite never having top recruiting classes), and Urban Meyer as a foot race where every position must love to run. Bode Miller skied by 'feeling speed in my feet', not technique. In markets, some investors win with a high hit rate and equal-sized bets. Others are 'sluggers' who are often wrong but size up heavily when they spot a great idea.

  • 04

    Process guards against variability and frees your mind to think.

    'We are what we do every day.' Consistent waking, eating and exercise, like a pilot's pre-flight checklist, hand routine work to automatic habit during cognitive overload, so attention is left for real decisions. A consistent process also tells you where to look when something goes wrong. If you aren't the smartest and there's a limit to how hard you can work, Valiante says, you can still design a life of 'wash, rinse, repeat'.

  • 05

    The fifth way, common in business, is hiring and managing well. Luck is real but not a strategy.

    He says no one would call Citadel founder Ken Griffin a prodigious trader, yet he built 'the ultimate meritocracy' by hiring the best person at each position to cover his own gaps. Luck is a sixth path: flip a coin five million times and you'll see long streaks of heads, and some lives simply land on heads. Valiante leaves it out of the five because you can't plan on it.

  • 06

    Discipline is changeable. Start with behavior, go all in, and allow no exceptions.

    Separate fixed traits (personality, mostly IQ) from malleable ones, and stop trying to fix the unfixable, a mistake he often sees in marriages. 'Discipline' comes from 'disciple', a student, so self-discipline means being a student of yourself. Change behavior first, because 'behavior is a cause of behavior' (Albert Bandura). Old habits are 'ruts long traveled'. Following William James, don't let an exception happen until the new habit is rooted: no celebratory pizza after a healthy month. Like the recovering alcoholic 20 years sober, keep working at it a little every day.

  • 07

    Change the environment and you often change the person, no willpower needed.

    Thinking happens in a place ('situated cognition'). Howard Gardner told him nature and nurture are each more important than we think. A casino has no windows or clocks, swaps money for chips, serves free drinks and plays chosen music, so disciplined people walk out at 5 a.m. asking what happened. 'If you want to be somebody else,' Valiante says, more often than changing your mind, 'change your environment' and the people around you.

  • 08

    Talent hotbeds run on 'primal cues', and comfort tends to breed fragility.

    Drawing on Daniel Coyle's The Talent Code, he notes that places producing outsized talent (Russian tennis, South Korean women's golf, Dominican baseball, Brazilian soccer) are rarely comfortable. The message is 'there's no plan B', which sharpens focus and speeds up skill-building. His exam question for students: why has no golfer from an elite club he names made the PGA Tour, despite the best coaches and new balls on perfect grass? Comfortable formative years leave people without the grit for when the game gets hard.

  • 09

    Resilience comes from normative failure. Overprotecting children makes them fragile.

    'When failure is the norm, resilience becomes second nature': a boxer's bones strengthen, Mount St. Helens grew back into a thriving ecosystem, foresters run controlled burns, and the lotus grows from muck. He cites Erik Erikson's warning that overprotection robs children of their lives. Often he's 'the last phone call', after a golfer has fired his caddie and coach. Crisis strips the ego away and frees people to create, as Steve Jobs described after being fired from Apple.

EXAMPLES

  • 01

    The Fearless Golf routine

    In 2002, asking golfers who they competed against got five different answers, which meant no constant. His routine covered before, during and after the shot, roughly 'pick a target, make a fearless swing, let it go', in 20 seconds, then repeat. It contributed to about 50 wins. Urban Meyer teaches 'seven seconds of greatness' for each of 60–70 plays.

  • 02

    The boy who kept getting in trouble

    Sitting unnoticed at the back of the class, Valiante saw the teacher had seated the boy between two best friends he messed around with. Moving him to the front fixed his behavior.

  • 03

    Parenting as a vanity project

    Parents yelling at their kids at the club are often embarrassed for themselves, and children feel it. Love means time, honesty and taking things away even when it's inconvenient. You've succeeded when your kid says, 'I got this.'

  • 04

    Confidence predicts persistence

    In a study he describes, students rated their confidence on 20 math problems. The confident ones kept reworking hard problems and solved more. Persistence, not ability, predicted their scores. Following Carol Dweck, praise effort rather than intelligence.

  • 05

    Shane's eight extra advantages

    Shane adds patience, the ability to withstand pain (financial, emotional, social), temperament, the right partner, energy, curiosity, luck, and positioning: 'everybody looks like a genius in a good position.'

OTHER RELEVANT

  • 01

    Delayed gratification pairs with resilience

    Valiante says both outrank raw ability over a lifetime. Teach both and your kids are 'pretty well set up'.

  • 02

    Wealth has its own pathology

    He's writing a book called Rich and Miserable: abundance often comes with anxiety, depression and drug abuse, and a smooth path leaves kids fragile.

  • 03

    Habits set early last

    The earlier discipline enters someone's habits, the more likely it lasts. Later in life, go all in the moment you decide to change.